18: Sincerity
"Successful indeed is the person who is sincere"
No Piety without Sincerity
The aim of rightful living is pursuing Taqwah (piety), and piety is considered to be ...
- The most noble human achievement (Q 49:13)
- The ultimate standard of Ihsaan (human excellence). As people of faith we are commanded to manifest excellence in every dimension of our existence.
There can be no piety in the absence of truthfulness of the heart and sincerity of intention. Sincerity is therefore rightly considered as the starting point of ethical living, the core of good character and the basis for an ideal personality.
Conscience & Consciousness
Confucius said: "Sincerity and truth are the basis of every virtue."
It is significant to note that sincerity must be rooted in the realm of ethics and facts. A person's
"sincerity" cannot be detached from the reality of universal moral values.
Be aware that being dedicated to a false or immoral perception detracts from the "morality" of one's commitment. A person cannot, for example, be praised for being "sincere" (actually forthright) about his racism.
To be sincere is ...
- to act according to your conscience
- conscience is your consciousness of right and wrong
- conscience is your moral compass guiding your acts
Dimensions of Sincerity
Sincerity emanates from three sources ...
- Subscribing to a Criterion Furqaan - basis for distinguishing wrong from right and good from evil. (Q 2:185)(Q 25:1)
- Purity of Intention Ikhlaas-un-Niyyah ...
- emanating from a sincere heart Qalbin Saleem (Q 26:88-89)
- based on informed choices (Q 18:103-104)
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: Actions are (judged) by intentions
- Commitment to Action 'Amil-us-Saalihaat - doing what is best in the best possible manner. (Q 103:1-4)
Abdullah ibn Mas'ud said, "Speech by itself is worthless unless it is followed by action, speech and actions by themselves are worthless unless based on proper intention."
The Prophet (pbuh) captured all the above-mentioned dimensions of sincerity when he is reported to have said:
"Successful indeed is the person who is sincere in faith, whose heart is pure, whose speech is
truthful and whose character is upright."
Sincerity is a Pre-requisite for Integrity
Integrity is about being honest, being honorable and being your self at your best. Integrity is about moral maturity; what it is to think and act in a way that reflects the full stature of a good, responsible and rational human being. Professor Don Cross said, "If I truly know who I am and what I value, and stand firmly for what I believe, and have the courage to act on it, I can not help but be sincere." Sincerity simplifies one's life, improves integrity and enhances one's ability to deal effectively with others and makes it easier for others to deal with you.
Sincerity is the Antidote to Hypocrisy
The ordinary person who is sincere is far more valuable than the most extraordinary person who is a hypocrite. Among
the most attractive qualities of human character is sincerity just as hypocrisy is among the most detestable and repulsive.
The antidote to hypocrisy is sincerity and purification of the self. There are many who live lives hiding behind a facade
of good appearance. The irony is that though the hypocrite is trying to deceive others, he actually only deceives
himself (Q 4:142).
Prophet Jesus/'Isa (pbuh) said: "You can't fix the problem of your heart with a disguise."
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: "Allah surely does not judge your appearances nor your physicality, but rather considers
the sincerity of your hearts and your actions."
Safeguard from Evil
Sincerity serves as a shield from bad influences and evil consequences. The forces of corruption are pervasive and
could affect everybody most of the time except those in servitude to Allah who are sincere. (Q 38:83)
Honesty in heart and mind are essential elements in developing a good personality and living a rightful life. Sincerity
is about being truthful at every level; to one's self, one's Creator and to the rest of the world.
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said in this regard:
"Complete truthfulness is obligatory upon you for surely truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to paradise"